Books Mentioned
- Playing Well With Others: Your Field Guide to Discovering, Exploring and Navigating the Kink, Leather and BDSM Communities by Lee Harrington and Mollena Williams
- The New Bottoming Book by Janet Hardy and Dossie Easton
- Building the Team: Cooperative Power Dynamic Relationships by Raven Kaldera and Joshua Tenpenny
BDSM Checklists
Most online checklists available today derive from the work of Tammad Rimilia, the “Gentleman Barbarian,” who passed away in 2000. You will find many versions online, and they can sometimes get very long!
- Fancy and convoluted: BDSMchecklist.com
- User-friendly and medium length: Kinksheet
- Compare yours with a partner’s easily: Carnal Calibration